Right Or Wrong ?

What is the Profit in that ? No No there will be a Loss. This two statements are so commonly used and heard all around. Sometimes, some places they are appropriate. They are required. Like in a business tie up, or say for your job or where money matters. But do this statements make sense when it comes to Relation ? Confused ? Let me try to convey what I want to. Recently I attended a function. I was somehow standing near to a group of few young friends and cousins of the Bride and Groom. The main point was 'They were young, around 23 or so. Some may be still studying. Some had just joined jobs. Some were still searching. What I noticed was, the innocence on their face. A bundle full of joy on their face. A few naughty lines on the forehead which lead to their mischief. The bond they had between them. The profitless helping hands. And finally whole lot of positive vibes which they emitted. I also found two kids, one little girl around 8 years who was performing on the stage and...

'Express' ... Is it something really difficult ? Maybe Yes it is when we fear the results or when someone opposite to us means a lot to us.. lets see if we can make it a bit easy. We have the right to speech. Do we use it in a good way, at the right time, with the right people. Think. It is said that we should think 100 times before we speak but that actually does not mean that you don't express. There is always a way to put up things what you want to say.  You do not know the answer to the question asked by your teacher, say it you don't know. Your boss wants the presentation to be put up in half n hour which would actually take you two hours. Tell him you need a little more time. Your friends are making fun of you because you wore the old fashioned clothes. Tell them you are saving for your further studies. Your mother in law told you to make a particular dish for guests which would not really look good. Tell her you have a better option. Your colleague is f...

The two words 'Helping Hands' automatically gives you a sigh of relief.. It is very easy to accept the help but at the same time difficult to lend one. In our daily schedule, in our Life, we all have become so busy with it that we don't see anyone around us. Someone who is in some difficulty, Someone who is short of time, Someone who is low with some issues, Someone who is in tremendous financial pressure, Someone who has lost all hopes from life. In short we all have been living a selfish life. We just think of our own benefits, comforts and motive of Life. So how to go about it. Its high time that we realise that Life is all about Give and Take. Lets start with some small helps taking a few examples into consideration. Kids can get up a little early, say just 15 mins and help mom in the kitchen. The elder sibling can just take 15 mins time to see how the younger sibling is doing with studies Mother in laws can just do some pre preparations in the ki...

LIFE, the most difficult subject to explain yet very interesting and if handled bravely the easiest and craziest. Yes lets talk about it. Lets make it simple, fun loving and lets talk about the Key To A Good Life Lets consider a Train. A train which everyone can see. But can we relate the train to our Life ? Lets try doing that. The Engine is Our Heart. The coaches are the stages of Life, the responsibilities, the duty. The tracks are the path on which we walk, the focus, the road to our journey to success, journey to happiness. The Vision is ours. The confidence to walk is in our hand. To reach the destination is in our mind. But the most important part I would say is the fuel with which the engine works & the wheels with which all the tasks are performed. The Fuel in the engine is nothing but the Trust, Love, Faith, Motivation, Respect what we get from our loved ones, our family and friends.  The Wheels are that important, special and privileged peopl...

We all must have faced a situation where we thought, 'Its All Over', 'It Wont Happen', 'There Is No Hope'. But than, did anything like that happen ? Think about it. In majority cases there was a way out. So lets talk about a few such situations. During exams due to some reason you could not complete your syllabus and you went to the examination hall with a fear that you would fail. In a competition at a big level, you saw a friend of yours who you think was better than you. You cooked continental food for the first time and you thought your dad wont like it because he likes traditional food. You  wanted to approach a new client but your boss did not allow you as someone else was gonna approach him. You were short of cash and you had an EMI to pay. You thought you wont be able to catch your flight on time as you had lots of work to complete before that. You had a deadly disease and doctors said chances are less. I am very sure you all can relate your own situa...

I have seen so many people who fall in love. People who like someone. I have even seen people who are crazy about a particular person.  So for what is this love, liking, craziness. If you ask a guy who has just fallen for someone, the reply you get is 'She is beautiful'. If you ask a girl who likes a guy in her college, the answer you get is 'He is Handsome'. The craziness for a particular person is because he or she is socially popular for photos and selfies with best outfits. I feel to look good is very easy when it comes to now a days times when there are a bunch of excellent salons, parlours and designer boutique in town. May it be a boy or a girl, you enter the salon and you can get a completely different look. A new trendy hair cut with cool hair colours. Your straight hair can be curled and your curled hair can be straightened. With assurance you can get a fair complexion. With makeup it can be groomed. You ask for something and its done. You pay good and yo...

I feel everyone is sick in some or the other way. I am not talking about any deadly disease or flu or cold. It is something more destructive. When one is ill in the real manner he/she has to take some daily medicines. So lets see what can be done about the sickness I am talking about. I have come across people who say my blog is in 'A Serious Mode'.. So today let me make it a bit light. I have given names to the sickness I am talking about  1. Jelousaria (Why do I don't have this when my Friend has one) 2. Lackoconfidenca (I wont be able to make it) 3. Moodostress (Work, Child, House, Money, Boss) 4. Overthinkography (What If... What will happen ?) 5. Negetiveamoeba (It will not happen, its not there, No, Not, Never) 6. Lazyguniya (Will do it tomorrow) 7. Dont Know Syndrome (I dont know... ) 8. Fearkins (If I will do this it will harm me)  So here are a few sickness which not only harms us physically but moreover mentally. Everyone reading this is caught with so...