Talk To EXPRESS

'Express'... Is it something really difficult ? Maybe Yes it is when we fear the results or when someone opposite to us means a lot to us.. lets see if we can make it a bit easy.

We have the right to speech. Do we use it in a good way, at the right time, with the right people. Think. It is said that we should think 100 times before we speak but that actually does not mean that you don't express. There is always a way to put up things what you want to say. 

You do not know the answer to the question asked by your teacher, say it you don't know. Your boss wants the presentation to be put up in half n hour which would actually take you two hours. Tell him you need a little more time. Your friends are making fun of you because you wore the old fashioned clothes. Tell them you are saving for your further studies. Your mother in law told you to make a particular dish for guests which would not really look good. Tell her you have a better option. Your colleague is flirting around with you. Tell him you don't like it, keep some distance. Your best friend hurt you with some comments. Straight forward tell him you are upset. Your neighbor roams around your house ten times a day. Do tell her you need some space. Your wife fought with you. Tell her you still love her. Your husband was rude with you. Tell him how important he is. You like someone. Do not hesitate to tell him. Go ahead make him feel special. 

In short in any case express whatever you feel is. Not always will the after effects be good. Maybe a argument would start, Maybe a fight would begin, Maybe you would realize that you were wrong and Maybe things would get sorted. But wearing a fake Smile and agree to what you actually don't is not a solution. You may agree at that point but with time you would break. You would get frustrated and finally there will be a major problem to your relation. So better Express what you feel.

Sometimes we do have a lot of love & respect for someone but we fail to express. We fail to make them feel special. We say 'Its Obvious'... No it is not. Speak it out. You need to say it loud and clear enough for the other to understand and not keep assuming things.

Sometimes we do not really like what is happening around but we fail to express. We fail to make them realize, it made you upset. Speak it Out. You never know things would get sorted.

I would say Talk, Speak, Express - Good, Bad, Genuine, Funny whatever it is. Talking and Expressing your Heart is always a Solution. Emotions are not something to be kept to yourself. But yes in a good manner. In a polite tone. With a positive vibe.

So here is your task for today. Go and express something to someone. Maybe something which you want to talk from a long time. But you didn't. Here you go. Its a push from my end 

By : Forum Shah