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Learning of 2025 - Part 1

'Time is precious.' We learned this when we were kids. But what about timing? Timing, oh! That's important. You cannot play with it; if done so, things can be ruined.

Let me ask a few questions. If a kid is hungry today, when will you feed him? Today right now or tomorrow? If a person has just had an accident, when will he be treated? Today or later? If to reach a destination on time, you have only one train, what will you do? Take that train anyhow or miss it? Here, you all have the right answers. You will feed the child as soon as possible, the person will be treated immediately, and the train will be boarded on time.

Now, let us look into some amazing situations.

  • If your friend needs your guidance over a difficult situation, when will you meet and discuss it with him? When he needs it or when you have time?

  • If your sibling wants to vent over some frustration that is bothering him, when will you be available? When you free, or just immediately?

  • If your colleague needs your support for a particular assignment that is required to be submitted before the deadline, when will you lend your support? At that time, or once it is convenient to you?

  • If your kid needs your time, your presence, for any project or just like that. Will you give time or say you are not in the mood?

To be with someone at the apt time is important. It is very important because the person is trusting you, relying on you. You cannot neglect one's crucial situation by saying, 'I am busy.' It is not about responsibility but a gesture of love and care.

If you do not give your time to your loved ones when they genuinely need you, you indirectly push them into some dark tunnel. The person may go through some mental wear and tear, leading to an emotional breakdown.

Think about it. If you don't get an oxygen cylinder for a person who cannot breathe, what will happen? Time is as special and as necessary as oxygen.

So, now onwards, look where to give time and when. Also, look back if you have ignored your special one knowingly or unknowingly. Make amends.

By: Forum Shah

Comments

  1. Vinit Zaveri31 January 2025 at 23:03

    Time for self...explained very well.

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    1. Anonymous31 January 2025 at 23:23

      Soo true...thanks for making us realise this

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    2. Anonymous1 February 2025 at 16:34

      True suggestions. Time changes everything. What is appropriate varies along thr journey of life

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  2. Anonymous31 January 2025 at 23:17

    Nice one

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  3. Anonymous31 January 2025 at 23:34

    Good one

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  4. Shweta Shah31 January 2025 at 23:36

    Giving time to your loved ones at the right time is a very important gesture showing love and care. No one is always busy but people don't take the initiative to make time at others convenience but at their own free time which may turn out to be late

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  5. Anonymous31 January 2025 at 23:37

    Nice

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  6. Anonymous31 January 2025 at 23:40

    Giving time to your loved ones is a very important gesture showing your love and care. No one is always busy but people don't take the initiative to give time at others convenience but their own free time.

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  7. Nilesh31 January 2025 at 23:54

    Good observation

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  8. Charu Doshi1 February 2025 at 07:37

    Nice

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  9. Anonymous1 February 2025 at 07:38

    It’s amazinggg

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  10. Anonymous1 February 2025 at 07:38

    Great article !!

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  11. Anonymous1 February 2025 at 08:26

    Nice

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  12. MAYUR SHAH1 February 2025 at 08:44

    This blog is about time management, how and where to be given. Nice article.

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  13. Niraj2 February 2025 at 15:01

    See I also read your article on right time. U should also add one should do payment also on right time so we can do proper rolling, once u do so I can send to my clients also😜

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  14. Anonymous3 February 2025 at 12:22

    Very well written. Keep writing & motivating

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