Attitude - A Lifetime Asset

I have seen so many people who fall in love. People who like someone. I have even seen people who are crazy about a particular person. 

 So for what is this love, liking, craziness. If you ask a guy who has just fallen for someone, the reply you get is 'She is beautiful'. If you ask a girl who likes a guy in her college, the answer you get is 'He is Handsome'. The craziness for a particular person is because he or she is socially popular for photos and selfies with best outfits.

 I feel to look good is very easy when it comes to now a days times when there are a bunch of excellent salons, parlours and designer boutique in town. May it be a boy or a girl, you enter the salon and you can get a completely different look. A new trendy hair cut with cool hair colours. Your straight hair can be curled and your curled hair can be straightened. With assurance you can get a fair complexion. With makeup it can be groomed. You ask for something and its done. You pay good and you come out best. You enter a boutique and get pampered with the latest colour which suits you.

 The thing which cannot be bought is Attitude. You need to have your own. It cannot be bought from a store. It has to be planted inside you. It has to grow time to time with different seasons. 

 An attitude with a goal, which does wake you up early. An attitude to learn new things, which makes you read and explore more and more. An attitude to be fit, which helps you exercise and eat healthy food. An attitude to maintain relations, which teaches you to speak politely and with affection. An attitude to help someone, which makes you kind. An attitude of Faith, which makes you believe in God. An attitude to enjoy life, which makes you down to earth. An attitude to value your family, which helps you take out time for them. An attitude for bright future, which helps you plan and save. And finally an attitude to keep improving yourself, which helps you except your own mistakes and rectify it.

 I feel the love, the liking and the craziness for someone should be looking at his/ her Attitude and not looks. Looks may fade but not the attitude. Good looks and Beauty is definitely a cherry on top. But look for the inner beauty of a person and not the Branded Clothes, Shoes, Hair colour, Lipstick colour or Nail colour.

 I hope you like my blog. Do let me have your feedback on the blog itself.

 By :  Forum Shah

Comments

  1. Unknown7 July 2018 at 21:56

    Absolutely correct...

    ReplyDelete
  2. Unknown7 July 2018 at 22:29

    Right .fourm I agree with your every sentence.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Anonymous7 July 2018 at 23:18

    Very well said...

    ReplyDelete
  4. Unknown8 July 2018 at 02:17

    Nice one . Loved reading ur 'an attitude with a goal paragraph'

    ReplyDelete
  5. Unknown8 July 2018 at 14:06

    Absolutely right foram
    Liked your writing v much
    Attitude is most beauty of a person...

    ReplyDelete
  6. Unknown8 July 2018 at 14:08

    Absolutely right
    Liked your paragraph
    Attitude most important

    ReplyDelete
  7. Unknown8 July 2018 at 14:40

    This is so true. You're an inspiration to me and I hope to many of them around you.

    ReplyDelete
  8. Unknown9 July 2018 at 10:19

    Yess absolutely... M agree with you

    ReplyDelete
  9. CHINTAN SHAH9 July 2018 at 11:15

    Nicely written...!

    ReplyDelete
  10. Unknown9 July 2018 at 14:18

    Really Very Nice , keep it up

    ReplyDelete
  11. Unknown10 July 2018 at 19:48

    Good one.. completely agree with u..keep it up.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Unknown12 July 2018 at 22:18

    Truely said

    ReplyDelete
  13. Unknown30 April 2020 at 21:28

    am proud to have a mami like you
    i have just started writing a blog so i was going through all of your blogs

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Learn the art of SELF LOVE

When it was last, you sat alone, thinking about none of your responsibilities. When was the last time you sat, relaxed, closed your eyes, and concentrated on yourself? Oh! You don't remember. Well, that's because it was not somewhere in the near past. The most forgotten task, and the last priority of many, is 'SELF'. And far away is 'SELF LOVE' The tree will grow and give fruit, but it needs time to go through the process. If the atmosphere is suitable, it has sufficient water and fertilizers, it will surely give good fruits. Similarly, a person can function, carry on the responsibilities, do the daily chores, spread love, and work efficiently only when one is refilled. Now, humans need to detox as well. If not, the human is surely going to lose its character, which will lead to failure. Hence, self-love should be mandatory. From the daily schedule, one must take out some time to rebuild oneself. Meditating and going deep down to understand the real self. One sh...
Read more

I am busy

Learning of 2025 - Part 1 'Time is precious.' We learned this when we were kids. But what about timing? Timing, oh! That's important. You cannot play with it; if done so, things can be ruined. Let me ask a few questions. If a kid is hungry today, when will you feed him? Today right now or tomorrow? If a person has just had an accident, when will he be treated? Today or later? If to reach a destination on time, you have only one train, what will you do? Take that train anyhow or miss it? Here, you all have the right answers. You will feed the child as soon as possible, the person will be treated immediately, and the train will be boarded on time. Now, let us look into some amazing situations. If your friend needs your guidance over a difficult situation, when will you meet and discuss it with him? When he needs it or when you have time? If your sibling wants to vent over some frustration that is bothering him, when will you be available? When you free, or just immediately? I...
Read more

LOVE

The most beautiful month. The one that is awaited all through the year. Indeed, it's Valentine's Day. A day where you can express yourself, especially for people who don't really communicate all through the year. This is the day. The most complicated yet amazing feeling is to be in love. But wait, nowadays, love is not alone. It comes along with ifs and buts. It comes along with a disclaimer! How will you know if the person you love is the one? How will you know if what you feel for them makes them feel the same for you? How will you know if the person is true to their words and actions? How will you know it is not a trap? How will you know your priority in their life? How will you know if they have any selfish mottos behind them? How will you know if it is love and not just lust? I don't think anyone has an answer to these questions.  When we are in love, we only think with our brains aside. We think emotionally. We think all is well. We never look at the negative side...
Read more