Right Or Wrong ?

Learning of 2025 - Part 1 'Time is precious.' We learned this when we were kids. But what about timing? Timing, oh! That's important. You cannot play with it; if done so, things can be ruined. Let me ask a few questions. If a kid is hungry today, when will you feed him? Today right now or tomorrow? If a person has just had an accident, when will he be treated? Today or later? If to reach a destination on time, you have only one train, what will you do? Take that train anyhow or miss it? Here, you all have the right answers. You will feed the child as soon as possible, the person will be treated immediately, and the train will be boarded on time. Now, let us look into some amazing situations. If your friend needs your guidance over a difficult situation, when will you meet and discuss it with him? When he needs it or when you have time? If your sibling wants to vent over some frustration that is bothering him, when will you be available? When you free, or just immediately? I...

When it was last, you sat alone, thinking about none of your responsibilities. When was the last time you sat, relaxed, closed your eyes, and concentrated on yourself? Oh! You don't remember. Well, that's because it was not somewhere in the near past. The most forgotten task, and the last priority of many, is 'SELF'. And far away is 'SELF LOVE' The tree will grow and give fruit, but it needs time to go through the process. If the atmosphere is suitable, it has sufficient water and fertilizers, it will surely give good fruits. Similarly, a person can function, carry on the responsibilities, do the daily chores, spread love, and work efficiently only when one is refilled. Now, humans need to detox as well. If not, the human is surely going to lose its character, which will lead to failure. Hence, self-love should be mandatory. From the daily schedule, one must take out some time to rebuild oneself. Meditating and going deep down to understand the real self. One sh...

The most beautiful month. The one that is awaited all through the year. Indeed, it's Valentine's Day. A day where you can express yourself, especially for people who don't really communicate all through the year. This is the day. The most complicated yet amazing feeling is to be in love. But wait, nowadays, love is not alone. It comes along with ifs and buts. It comes along with a disclaimer! How will you know if the person you love is the one? How will you know if what you feel for them makes them feel the same for you? How will you know if the person is true to their words and actions? How will you know it is not a trap? How will you know your priority in their life? How will you know if they have any selfish mottos behind them? How will you know if it is love and not just lust? I don't think anyone has an answer to these questions.  When we are in love, we only think with our brains aside. We think emotionally. We think all is well. We never look at the negative side...

If you look at the dictionary meaning of  Dreams , 'It means a series of thoughts, images, and sensations occurring in a person's mind during sleep.' But according to me, Dreams are  a series of thoughts, images, and sensations to which you look with eyes wide open, in all your senses, and with the only aim of making them true. When you truly desire something, you dream of it. When you dream of it, part of your mind believes it to be true. Once you start having a feeling of contentment, your mind finds a way to your Dream.  A Dream need not be something huge. It can also be small, tiny things. You can Dream of an A+ in your tests. You can Dream of an adventurous vacation. You can Dream of a car. You can Dream of a healthy life. You can Dream of weight loss. You can Dream of a successful meeting. You can Dream of a new house. You can Dream of self-importance. You can Dream of a salary hike. You can Dream of a lovely marriage. You can Dream of a cute little kid. You can Dre...

I have heard a lot of times from different people that they can't wake up in the morning. It is difficult for them to go to sleep early, so mornings are an issue. There is something going on in their minds that does not let them sleep, so mornings are difficult. There are a number of tabs open at the same point. Shutting down one doesn't help. Why? Can we solve this? Also, there are people who wake up in the mornings at a fixed time, but only because of their responsibilities and their daily routine. Not because they want to. Where do you get this love for mornings? Yes, we can get it. I have been in this same scenario for a very long time. I tried many ways, but all in vain. One fine day, I found a solution. Something changed my life, and I was awestruck. Let me share the idea with you all. I will be glad if it works for you all as well. Mornings are a signal from God that today is yours. You are alive. You have one more chance to conquer, to aim, to feel, to love, and to live...

In times of our busy schedule, we keep looking for things like good food, a good place to hang out, a good job etc. But what is more important to find, is  A Shade . A place to relax, a place to burry yourself, a place where you can get angry, a place to be immensely happy, a place where you can show your regret, a place where you celebrate profusely, a place where you cry, a place where you express, a place where you are you. A place where you can be your own self. A place where you need not put up your mask. A place called your comfort -  'A Shade'. Shade is not a place. It is that person in your life, who is a good listener. A good motivator. An inspiration. Your gist. Your doctor, your counselor. Your entertainer. Your push. You pull. Your teddy bear. Your smile. You sunshine. Your moonlight. Your happy pill. Your bitter gourd. Your delusion alarm. Your reason to wake up another day. In short - 'Your Jaddu Ki Jappi' You may find your shade, your shelter, your cover...