LOVE

The most beautiful month. The one that is awaited all through the year. Indeed, it's Valentine's Day. A day where you can express yourself, especially for people who don't really communicate all through the year. This is the day.

The most complicated yet amazing feeling is to be in love. But wait, nowadays, love is not alone. It comes along with ifs and buts. It comes along with a disclaimer!

How will you know if the person you love is the one? How will you know if what you feel for them makes them feel the same for you? How will you know if the person is true to their words and actions? How will you know it is not a trap? How will you know your priority in their life? How will you know if they have any selfish mottos behind them? How will you know if it is love and not just lust? I don't think anyone has an answer to these questions. 

When we are in love, we only think with our brains aside. We think emotionally. We think all is well. We never look at the negative side. And that's where we go wrong.

So, what is the solution? Firstly, think a hundred times before getting into a relationship. Be in a neutral mood until the time you are not sure. Communicate. Speak about different topics. Go on a debate. Observe their behavior. Be a good listener. Analyse. Do not involve yourself so much that if the person is no longer in your life, you forget how to live. Do not completely depend on them for your day-to-day work or your happiness. 

Also, if you commit, be there. Stay, do not evade. If you are not sure, do not get involved. But when you decide to be together, give your best to water your relationship and let it bloom. Remember, what you say might be just words for you, but for the other person, it might be the reason for their smiles and happiness. Your absence can lead to a nerve-wracking situation for them. If you love someone, take the lead by eloquently showing it. 

Love is joy, which comes from the littlest packages. Phone calls, chat messages, sending smiley's, waiting for each other's call, looking at the clock to meet them, silent video calls, caring for each other, asking about the day, looking at each other's health, motivating them with their work and studies, sharing out the heart, warm hugs, pampering, promises, stupid fights, praises, experiments, coffee dates, commuting together, staring without a blink, being in each other's arms for hours, the most affectionate kisses, holding on to each other, and much more, which cannot be put in words.

So friends, good luck finding your 'true love'. I hope you find your mate. I wish you realize the difference between like and love. 

Create your own garden with small, romantic moves; let the flowers bloom with smiles and blushes. I assure you, it will surely spread its fragrance in the form of eternal happiness and bliss.

Cheers to all my friends who found someone special!

By:
Forum Shah